“What you see is what you get. What you hear is who I am.” ― Angie Stone
I recall one of my professors in graduate school saying that if the answer is not clearly yes or no, the best response is always "it depends."
It depends on how you and I perceive things. However, it is not just about sight.
When you and I see something, a lot of other things come to mind, such as memories and feelings. When we see something, we compare it to something similar or different that we have seen before. This creates a feeling about what we are seeing. When you and I see something, we may feel scared, happy, disgusted, or relaxed - depending on the situation.
It is rarely neutral; even if it is something we have never seen before, we may feel curious or confused.
Putting all of this together, seeing something results in the formation of a perception about the object, person, or situation under observation.We both have perceptions that differ, if only marginally, from everyone else's.
Each of us has a unique perception of what we see, whether it be something real or virtual, like a picture or a movie. Each of us "gets" or understands what we see in a certain way. However, our individual interpretations may differ.
Thus, what we "get" or each interpret for ourselves from what we see is what we see. If we see a car speeding toward us, you and I will quickly realize that we need to move aside.
I consider myself to be a pretty honest person these days; I say what I mean and I use words that I think are appropriate.
But when you look at me or hear me, what do you "get"? It is probably not going to be how I think of myself.
Some estimate that when you and I meet someone for the first time, it takes us about seven seconds to form an opinion of them; other estimates put that time closer to 30 seconds. The problem is, even if we want to, it can take a lot of work to alter that perception if we get it wrong (on either side) in those initial few seconds. Although it is not simple or quick, it is possible. It is not just about people, either.
Everybody, including me, has developed a set of views or beliefs about everything that occurs in the world over time. Everything from politics and religion to the ideal color and form of our veggies and the speed at which our broadband should operate. Everyone has an opinion of themselves, including you and me. regarding our identity and our goals for ourselves. We can usually see where we are right now quite clearly, so that is what we currently "get" or comprehend.
In order to tackle each small piece, divide your overall vision into manageable chunks. Make a thorough perception—or visualization—of everything you hope to acquire. All that you aspire to be, accomplish, or own. Then, if you give it some thought. You will receive what you "see" in this case.
It will all fit together if you handle it carefully.
